Saturday, March 22, 2014

The Plan

We finally have a treatment plan! I really wanted to post this yesterday but duty calls for me to be a dance mom this weekend, so I am updating in-between our busy schedule.

As we have learned over the last couple of weeks, there are a lot of factors to consider when treating cancer. From the type of cancer it is, if it has spread, and how well your liver and kidneys are working (just to name a few). Dad has a complicated case and finding the right treatment has been challenging. One of the nurses from Thursdays visit even made the comment that he was one of the most complicated cases that they had ever had. I say all of this to tell you that our treatment options depend on numerous things that can change day to day and week to week. Without going into a lot of details I will explain as much of this as I can.

First things first though, I would like to say that after spending some time with dad on Thursday and Friday it seems that he is finally starting to feel better. He is taking a little less pain medicine so he can move around more and and more and any activity is good for his health right now. His spirits are also well, he is absolutely determined to beat this so we are supporting him and are willing to do all we can for him. We know there are a lot of people praying for him and we ask that you keep that up, we never know what God as planned for us but we know it is with-in his power to heal.

Due to the type of liver cancer that dad has, he is unable to take certain types of chemo. We did find out on Friday that he is able to take an oral chemotherapy that we hope his cancer will respond to. Depending on how this chemo works will determine what our future options are. This means we just have to wait to see how things go. They are going to FedEx this to him directly from the pharmaceutical company, as of now he still hasn't received it but hopefully he will on Monday.

Meanwhile we are working on a few other problems that we can do something about, it just takes time and some patience. It is our goal to keep him as healthy as possible because a lots of things are dependent on his health. For example; he was having a hard time eating last week because of some medication he was taking, we were able to get the medication changed and now he can eat more. Another example is the edema that he has had, we don't want to put any undue stress on his heart, liver and kidneys so we needed to adjust some medication, work on getting him active, and hopefully massage therapy will be beneficial. It seems that one problem can cause another and we want to prevent that as much as we can.  

I promise I will keep updating, I also have several new pages in the works so be on the look out for those. I am trying to make this site informative as well as a place to share things about my dad that you may not know or a memory that may hold a special place in your heart. As I have said before everyone has been so supportive and we all need your prayers, well wishes, and to be able to laugh and cry with joy and love in our hearts for this special man. 

I wanted to share this picture that I have been waiting on, this is my dad (Billy) with some old friends as well as some new ones! We cherish each and every friendship ever made over the years!

Old friends and new ones! Thank you all for your love, support & visits!

Many of you have asked me for his address and I wanted to let you know what it was. 721 Anchors Bend Cove, Clover SC 29710.

Tonight's Scripture, I selected from many sent to us from the our friend and Reverend, John Ware. 
"...and he...healed all that were sick, That it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Esaias (Isaiah) the prophet, saying, Himself took our infirmities, and bare our sicknesses."
Matthew 8:16-17


  1. Great picture! Lots of love right there!

  2. Thank you, Stacy, for the update. I think about you and your sisters, and especially Billy and Becky. Love you all so much. Just wish I could be there for you all. I would like to email Billy and I think you posted his email earlier on, but I can't find it. If you get a chace, email me at Again I love you all and think the world of my cousing Billy. My thoughts and prayers are with you all everyday, every minute and every second.

    Gail Roberts Mills (AK: "ms G") sry for that confusion.

    1. Thank you Gail! I hope that you are able to come visit soon. We have shared all of your messages with dad, sorry to just be responding to you. We love you and have thought about you often. Please feel free to text dad, he keeps his phone with him all the time, and he would love to get a text from you, I cant promise he will respond but he will read it, his number is 704-473-9954

  3. Just recently heard about Mr. Standridge through one of our email prayer lists at church. I didn't know if he would be up to a visit, but I did want to make a contact and let you folks know that we are praying for you. If I can ever be of help, my numbers are: Home: 704-869-6275; office: 704-482-4151; and cell 704-477-4726. I live in Gastonia, probably 20 minutes away from you. Robert Rose, Associate Pastor, Zoar Baptist Church, Shelby, NC

    1. Thank you, we would love for you to visit. His address is 721 Anchors Bend Cove Rd, Clover SC 29710


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